Sex vs. Romance

Is romance the socially appropriate response to sexual arousal or is love the result of years together? Scientists, along with human behavior studies, have been seeking the answers to these questions for quite some time now, and believe that finally they may have the answer.

According to Chikabuzz, There are two distinct differences in the areas of the brain associated with sexual arousal and emotional responses typical of being romantically involved, and using brain scans. Scientists were able to decipher the distinctions people make-in their brains-when presented with sexual stimuli and then pictures of their wives and/or girlfriends. (By the way, the studies were done on females as well, we will use the term him for the sake of simplicity.)

Subjects who had very recently entered into new love relationships were hooked up to electro scanners and given a series of questions to answer pertaining to their new loves. Their levels of dopamine soared when answering the questions, and appeared mostly to stimulate the right side of the brain, usually associated with rewards that are not typically in the instant gratification section. This was thought to be because romance and love is not part of instant gratification, as is thought to be sexual encounters, porn, and impulse control associated with the left side of the brain. When the same subjects were shown sexually explicit material or answered explicit questions, the scans on the left side of the brain reacted.

More importantly, the areas of the brain which are thought to act as the relationship matures changed strongly when these same questions were answered by couples who had been involved for several years, leading scientists to believe that as we mature in our relationships, so does our brain activity in response to that relationship. This could also explain why couples who are very much in love also experience a sense of the spark going out of their relationship after a few years. It’s not that they aren’t attracted to each other any longer; it’s that their brain waves have matured. This could give much hope to couples thinking about separating because they don’t know what happened to the romance and sex in their relationship. This breakthrough could save you thousands on couples counseling, and give the hope that as the two of you move through this area of your relationship-and you will move through it, studies also show that this is a growth area for couples, not the end of the partnership- you will come out on the other side even more attracted to each other than before.

During the fifties and the beginning of the sixties, these types of studies where not even thought of, couples stayed together even when it seemed impossible. With the explosion of divorce becoming popular in the seventies and more couples separating in order to find them, the need for these types of brain wave studies became very necessary, and a good thing, too.

If you and your partner are in a rut, it’s not the right move to separate. Stay together and give it some time, there are other things you can do to spice up your relationship and still stay together. Love is still by far the strongest of all of the emotions.

Is Safe Sex Really Safe?

Gone are the days when people could have multiple partners without the use of a condom, and other safe sex practices.

Safe sex is all about keeping yourself, and your partner, protected from the complications of unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted disease.

Although the concept of safe sex seems easy enough to understand, more and more people — young people in particular — seem to be missing the point, or missing the concept of how to accomplish safe sex. And just how safe and reliable is that condom when it comes right down to it? A condom can’t promise 100% protection from AIDS or from pregnancy.

For males in particular, another problem with practicing safe sex is remembering to take the time to …

(a) have a condom ready
(b) know how to use it properly, and
(c) take the time to put it on.

It’s important to educate young people today in the proper use of condoms so that they understand when and how to use them. There’s no point to having a condom ready if neither partner is going to take time to enforce its use. In a very practical sense, however, although a condom is typically worn by the male partner during heterosexual intercourse (and typically by both partners in a homosexual one), the responsibility for proper condom-IQ is borne by both partners.

Fortunately, there are more and more products appearing on the market to help people to plan for safe sex and to practice this method of responsible intercourse. Since both the birth control pill and the condom aren’t 100% effective, combining the use of both of them together will increase your chances of staying safe.

It’s also vital to be aware of a partner’s sexual history, and to seek “medical clearance” before engaging in a new relationship. This is especially important for those in polygamous relationships (more than one sexual partner at a time), because a “chain” of unsafe sex can start with any partner and spread rapidly through a previously healthy group.

The only way that there are going to be less unwanted pregnancies, and less transmission of STD’s is if all sexually active people – both young and old — are educated in the concepts of safe sex and what it means to them. In particular, in parts of the country where access to information is more challenging (such as some underprivileged areas), it’s vital that communities step forward and provide this education.

Young men, in particular, need to understand the implications and risks of unprotected sex and what it can mean to their lives when they have an unwanted pregnancy or find out that they have a STD. Safe sex starts with education and knowledge, neither of which any young teen can do without.

Fucking Machines

The rage these days with sex toys is fucking machines yes you heard that right a fucking machine. Not really hard to figure out it’s exactly what it’s called a fucking machine and it does just that. It’s a machine that will fuck you! Now you don’t need to do any work just relax and turn on that sex machine and you will be ready to have full sexual satisfaction with orgasms out of this world.

Fucking machines have been selling like crazy to say the least and really solves a lot of problems to say the least. How you say? Well think of this!

Just imagine this and that’s if you are a guy and has someone like a girlfriend a wife or a lover and is in the room using her fucking machine she is as wet as can be and having the orgasm of her life and you are about to fuck her. That wouldn’t get you off? Yeah right you know it would!

If you are a women and don’t have a man in your life a fucking machine would sure put a smile on your face or should i say a lot of shivers in your body. When you do decide to get a man in your life don’t be shy about breaking out that fucking machine in front of him because believe me you will put the biggest smile on his face or atleast that’s how he will fill inside. You will be giving him one of his biggest fantasies just the thought of you using the fucking machine in front of him.

A lot of women are buying a sex fucking machine as it’s the best way to have the ultimate orgasm. You can even use it as a anal fucking machine to get that great anal stimulation for women as well as men.

Fucking machines have a motor which makes a dildo stroke rotate back and forth automatically and most can be controlled by a remote control to make the speed of the sex machine go fast or slow. You can use interchangable Vac-U-Lock Dildo system to change the style of the dildo. Most of the better fucking machines are made of steel making them last a lifetime.

There are many different styles of sex machines some are handheld some sex machines look like a toolbox or locker to disguise the look as well as hide easily.

Some of the popular sex fucking machines are the Stallion fucking machine, the gang bang fucking machine, black magic fucking machine, doggy style fucking machine and the rider fuck machine.

Fucking machines are not much money considering what they do but they do tend to be a little expsensive but well worth it to get a better quality fucking machine. Spend the extra cash as you well have the best orgasm just based on that alone see my point.

The different names they use as well for the fucking machine is fuck machine, sex machine and the love machine but it all comes down to it’s a fucking machine.

Don’t be shy try a sex machine you will see they are fully accepted these days and your companion will love you for it! You can’t ask more in a sex toy.

Lesbian Dating

Lesbian dating is becoming more and more popular in open society. People are now open to the fact that women are in relationships with each other, and men just love it. Females that openly admit that they are gay are often popular with other members of their community, although this was not the case years ago. With lesbian relationships being the basis of most men’s fantasies it is no wonder that society has relaxed more to women being gay than men.
Some women are still against the idea though but they are of the minority. Figures show that there are a lot more supporters to the gay cause than there have ever been before. More women are know opening up to the fact that they think about or have actually had sexual contact with other women and it is a known fact that most women will think about it during their life. We are now in a very open and modern society so it is no wonder that these figures have been made public and are not shocking.
Lesbians showing affection to each other in public would be tolerated, but if a gay (men) couple were to do this they would be harassed. It is still sad to see that because there is more ‘nice’ exposure on the lesbian front men gay couples are still suffering bad media attention although there are some very famous men who have openly admitted being gay.
Today’s world has opened up new doors for lesbian couples (and gays). We live in a world where you can join in a civil partnership (a marriage) with your partner rather than ridiculed and made a fun of. This just goes to show that differences are being accepted and that no one should have to hide who they are, or what they are because they may not be accepted by the public eye. I say who cares what others think, be yourself.